The Three Prick's ?

Betrayal and being discarded is a real Bxtch and I'm sure we all know that feeling because whether you want to admit it or not we have all felt it at some point in our lives, however, more than likely it was caused by the people we considered most loved or that we thought we couldn't go a day without thinking of, maybe a past lover or a close friend.

I am personally finding this platform to be a huge gateway for me to express a deep sadness that has been buried for quite a while since I was told to "build a bridge and get over it", sound familiar ?? well that won't be the case here as I know deep down that my generosity was simply abused and I can tell you now it won't ever be the same again for dam sure.

This isn't a chance for me to rant as that's far too cliche although it is a chance for me to point out where I went wrong and try to prevent others from making my past nieve mistakes.

This can be viewed in several ways depending on what suits you on a personal level, this advice can be for toxic friendships, relationships, even your pets as sometimes they just want your attention and when you aren't there they waltz over to the neighbors, hence being discarded even if you're trying your best but just busy. I've been told my advice has actually worked for some in many different scenarios both good and bad so it's up to you guys whether you want to try it or not.

For the record please let me say that I am in no way a psychologist or have studied psychology, I simply have common sense, manners, and life experience in a short amount of years through trial and many many errors, this method has worked far more effective for me rather than seeing someone who sat in lectures gaining a huge head then staring at someone for an hour charging them €80 for a session and not solving a dam thing, speaking from experience guys and realizing they are just human beings and if anyone can solve my problems on this rock we call Earth, it's going to be ME in the right mindset, as that's the most powerful help there is known to man.

A strategy that I've come up with over the years aided by slamming doors which by the way works surprisingly well, is called " The three pricks".
This method is painful yet it really shows who will be there for you in the end and even though you might get hurt you will be sure to remember each and every time the pain that you went through.

The first prick in life is thinking that people have your back and you give them all you can and be the most amazing human for them when in fact they use you like a tissue during the flu season and simply discard you when they stop sneezing, these people you thought had your back throw lemons at you and find it humoring when you struggle but what should you do? You can throw the lemons back and achieve nothing or you can make lemonade and get some vitamin C out of it, but that option is up to you and only YOU can make it.

I am always telling my sister to be proud of who she is and don't let anyone's bullshxt drag her down as nobody is worth her time if they solely seek out to hurt others. I have dealt with people like this my entire life and have reached a boiling point,(literally screamed out of nowhere and confused everyone) that I couldn't handle it anymore so this brings me on to rule number 2.

The second prick was not being able to handle it anymore and feel lost, lonely and quite sad because it sucks when nobody has your back and that nobody wants your company in life. This feeling I can speak freely about as it happened to me more times than I would ever wish upon my worst enemy, because being human we are social creatures and need interaction with others so imagine feeling like nobody wants you and that you are stuck in that mental zone for the foreseeable future, its bloody shit, sorry but I can't even sweeten that phrase because it truly is the worst feeling in the world.

The third prick is starting all over again from scratch as hopefully you will have passed the first two pricks and have wiped your slate clean, this has both good and bad effects because (1) You don't have anyone to hurt you yet you have nobody to go to for help so its another prick to deal with. This stage is probably the most vital as it shows who can really move past their enemies and have a better life, now for me I must admit it took me a very long time to move past prick number 2 but in the end, it was so worth it as now I am surrounded by positive amazing people who respect me for who I am.

I want others to use this procedure because for me to be completely honest with others I can't lie that I went through shit for so many years and bloody struggled and that I had no help and wasn't strong enough to pull myself out of it, but thankfully I didn't fall to my darkest thoughts and I am here writing this to try to help others in similar situations.

Moral of the rule here is to be nice at all times because we are all here for a good time not a long time and as the phrase goes "What goes around comes around", I was told this when I first discovered what a bully was and it has only now shown its true value.
Keep in mind that the only person who will truly love and protect you is You.